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2010: Pay It Forward!

January7

Last year my dear friend J dubbed 2009 the year of firsts. Boy, he couldn’t have hit the nail on the head harder! Whew! What a friggin’ year?! This time last year I didn’t know what I was going to do with my life. I maybe had the first sign of an idea about possibly maybe opening a café…little did I know! Ha! Bit it truly was an exciting year.

This year my dear friend P has dubbed 2010 the year of paying it forward. As in doing random acts of kindness and when one is done for you, you must pay it forward threefold (yes, just like the movie). I would also like to continue the theme of firsts because I feel like there are just too many things in the world I’ve yet to experience or do and so I’ll stick to that as well. But I’m all about paying it forward, too!

I am quite fond of this new trend J started last year of giving it a theme. No resolutions needed, wanted or required. And last year at this time believe me when I say that my prospects were slim. Now look at me! Okay, I’m not rolling in dolla-bills or roses, but I’m on my way to independence, baby and there is nothing sweeter than that!

With last year’s theme I was able to completely change how I make decisions. I used to of course weigh the pros and cons of any endeavor or purchase. Constantly doing some sort of research on something because I had the time (I was unemployed) was comfortable making “informed” decisions. Now? Well, now I fly by the seat of my pants every day and give little thought to all of the possible ways it could fail. Where has it gotten me? I started my own business, signed a killer lease and found a community in a town I knew nothing about. I’ve made friends and done things I never would have done before.  Last year I was full of anxieties and fears, but this year I am full of excitement and overall joy.

I’m not saying this is just the end all be all thing to do, but it has worked out just swell for me.

Restaurant Reprieves: How to save some moolah and still eat out!

October12

All joking aside (eat out! Ha-ha!), I love to eat at restaurants. Isn’t it marvelous that we can pay someone to make us dinner without feeling guilty about it? Yeah! My fave is probably going out for breakfast on the weekend. Because, much to my husband’s chagrin,  I just don’t like the smell of cooked eggs in my tiny apartment, y’all. But some recent outings have given me some small insight into how to save some cash and still go out to eat.

1.) Lunch menus rock! Seriously! Most restaurants have a lunch menu that features cheaper prices. While this often translates to smaller portions, it doesn’t always and half the time the larger portions are really 2-3 servings as it is. Sometimes you find some neat stuff you wouldn’t normally find, too! Going out to lunch was really big when I had a corporate job. Everyone just wanted to flea the office, so we’d have a few usual spots. I love when there is a good soup & salad deal, too. In fact, while I’m not a fan, Chili’s restaurants has a $5.99 unlimited soup & salad deal (and chips & salsa) that is sure to please any appetite and budget! Of course there’s the classic Olive Garden soup & salad deal (w/bread sticks), but I’m so over Olive Garden (ask me why) I laugh at their commercials as I fast forward them! So yeah, even if it’s a restaurant that’s normally a bit too pricey for ya, try ’em at lunch!

2.) Brunch isn’t just for fancy ladies anymore! I was surprised yesterday when my husband and I hit up our local TGI Friday’s after watching Michael Moore’s new film that they have a brunch menu! Score! It just so happened that I had a gift card from two years ago so I technically got the whole thing for free, but it was still a good deal on it’s own. I got the french toast for $6.99 which included a lot of french toast, choice of bacon or sausage and potatoes. The potatoes were different, but good. Two heaps of hot potato cubes with some sort of cheddar-garlic mixed in…tasty! The bacon was even good! The french toast was fried and not very thick, but you also didn’t get that gross raw egg batter taste either.

3.) Your drinks can kill your budget! The gal at Friday’s was taken aback when I asked her how much the fountain drinks were (aka soda or pop). When she said $2.69 (w/free refills of course) I ordered a glass of water. I mean, c’mon! You could but a 6 pack of soda for that price! No thanks! Some restaurants won’t offer tap water either, so be careful. I try to specify by saying “Ice Water” but they may still try to up-sell to bottled. No thanks, I actually don’t like the taste of plastic. Also, some restaurants have meals that come with a specified beverage. The Old Spaghetti Factory for example has meals that come with either iced or hot tea! Just know that if you order something else to drink by mistake, they won’t remind you of their tea deal. My fave breakfast place (a little Mom & Pop in Mountain View, CA called “Good Morning”) has free fresh squeezed orange juice with any combo meal. It’s soooo tasty, too! I mean, what beats fresh? Nothin’! Also, be careful when ordering cocktails in restaurants! Most don’t list the prices on the menu and instead entice you with colorful pictures. Don’t fall for it! Ask what the specials are and if you have a usual ask how much before ordering! Same thing with sodas, ask if they have free refills before asking for one…never assume!

4.) 3 Course Deals! This is where you get to choose form a limited offering (usually) of an appetizer, main course and dessert. I think TGI Friday’s did this awhile back (didn’t check if they still do), but I was pleasantly surprised to find such a deal at Daphne’s Greek Cafe. We got an appetizer of hummus (your choice of flavor) and pita, a main course of chicken kabob plus gyro street pita with choice of sides (I got rice and salad, yum!) and choice of baklava or pecan delight. All of that…for…drum roll…$6! Oh yeah! And filling, too! I love Daphne’s actually! I’m part of their VIP club and they are very generous with the coupons in the old email inbox! Love that!

5.) Join the club! Restaurants love loyal customers and loyal customers love being rewarded! Win-win! Go to your local/fave places and ask if they have such a club that offers coupons, points or other rewards. I think the most generous is the Soup Plantation/ Sweet Tomatoes. They always send me buy 1 get 1 free coupons! If you’ve never been it’s sort of like Fresh Choice (as in a salad, soup, etc buffet) but I prefer Sweet Tomatoes, myself. I also get them form Coco’s and Daphne’s and Hometown Buffet and all sorts of places I like to eat. Ask your local mom & pop place if they have anything like that. They may offer you a coupon on the spot or tell you about their exclusive Twitter specials (I do this with my own cafe).

6.) Gift Certificates! But don’t buy them right at the restaurant. Instead try www.Restaurant.com which always seems to be having some majorly big sale going on (80% anyone? Yes, please!). It works like this: you buy say a $25 gift certificate for Mr. Happy’s House of Ham (made up, could ya tell?) but you only pay $10 for the certificate. Pay attention though, because most have purchase limits/requirements. Like it may not work on a Saturday or on cocktails or you must spend $50 to use the $25. But it’s still a fab deal! Sign up for their email list and you’ll be notified when the certificates are super cheap! Also, you print your own certificates at home, so no waiting for the mail or wasting plastic and all that jazz.

7.) Tapas or Little Plates! You can do this one anywhere, really. Basically, you go to a restaurant with some friends/relatives/whatever and everyone orders one small dish (like appetizer or side or something) and then everyone shares! It’s fun and exciting and you often end up finding out you like stuff you’d never normally order. It’s fantastic! And it’s awesome when you go to a place that specializes in actual Tapas (Spanish). We have a local joint called Cascal that is always packed, but they make great food and cocktails! Whew! So good! And they have a Cuban Sandwich that’s ridiculously good. So good my frend J rarely wants to share it! Ha! You can do this with desserts, too! My friends and my husband and I will often order one or two desserts and split them between the four or five of us. Super fun!

What tips/tricks/secrets do you have when eating out (tee hee)? Well, tell me!  =0)

Pour l’amour d’hommes (For the love of men)

October8

I know that I tend to write about more lady related topics, but that’s so not fair! I am all about equality and this bargain huntress won’t let the men down, believe me! So guys, here’s a quickie guide to www.Etsy.com ! Please, don’t be afraid to venture into the unknown. There is an entire world of crafty peeps out there waiting to work with you to create something truly legend -wait for it- ary!

From custom leather goods to personalized stationary or t-shirts, Etsy is the place for all things custom and personalized (yes, even license plate frames)! It’s what I love most about it. You can order dog tags or cuff links with your name or any other info on it. And please, don’t fear being judged! I have made some strange requests of sellers on Etsy and have never had anyone so much as blink an eye at it! So dive on in! The crafty waters are perfect! (Got a gag gift in mind? Post in the “Alchemy” section and let sellers bid for your project or contact a seller directly!)

I would say that the neatest thing I’ve found on Etsy is the personal care (aka: health and beaty) items. From organic to vegan and fragrance free (my husband won’t buy the fragranced stuff) you can find or request anything your heart or your body desires! Even custom undies!!! Yes, you can get Fight Club soap to show off to your friends/guests! You can get all things liquor/beer related from soaps to artwork. The sky is the limit!

Keychains? Yep! Shaving soap refill? Uh-huh! Macho bracelets/necklaces? Oh yeah! If you can dream it then there is someone out there willing and able to make it for you (depending on the project and your budget). Halloween stuff, too! I even found fridge magnets that look like real bacon! Sweet! And baked goods, too! Yeah, too lazy to bake for yourself or go to the store? Buy some goodies on Etsy! You can taste your way around the world! From jams to cookies and lollipops and cake…custom blended teas and coffees…did I mention the sky is the limit? Yeah, ’cause it is!

And clothes? You can get custom made garments for the same price you’d pay for ready to wear stuff in the store! Ridiculous-cool! Hunter S. Thompson passport cover? You got it! Giant Bruce Lee wall decal? Sure! It’s all in how you work the keyword search. See, all the stuff below I slapped into my fave list for your viewing and linking pleasure. And there’s so much more than what you see here! Check out more of my manly faves: http://www.etsy.com/favorite_listings_public.php?user_id=51553 (only the first 5-6 pages are for men). All I did was type in “for men” into the keyword search box at the top of the homepage www.etsy.com and sorted by price (or you can set other parameters and click on categories, too) and went window shopping!

So, check it out, give it a shot and tell me what you think! Thanks fellas! =0)

Etsy
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Life Without Fabulon…

October6

My beloved and fave blog PlanetFabulon.com has mysteriously shuttered. Leaving me with heartache and a need for a fix of fabulosity! So…I shall scour the webz in search and perhaps you’ll join me on this adventure and see what we find in the universe!

Came across a Tweet from 52stations and I friggin’ loved it and Carrie Fisher for writing it: http://carriefisher.com/?p=462

I love this site’s clothing and have bought a few items now. I can attest to it’s quality and uniqueness. You just won’t see another gal walking down the street in thei stuff (yet!): http://eshakti.com/ with sizes from 0 – 38W there seems to be something for everyone! PLUS: you can get customized styling for $10! Yes! No tailor needed! And only $10!!!

I am loving Yoko Ono’s Tweets! You may have noticed my recent post “25 Things” in her honor. Well, check out her site: http://imaginepeace.com/news/ it’s full of fabulosity and compassion!

If you’re a regular Fabulonian, you’ll already be familiar with Mr. Peakcock and his style:  http://mrpeacockstyle.blogspot.com/

And I love this art/design/blog: http://nubbytwiglet.com/blog/ it’s always full of fab typesettings and all kinds of fabulousness!

If you’re on the fashion leaning side of Fabulon: http://galadarling.com/ will surely give you something to gawk at!

Another fashion one, but this one’s a more collage style scene: http://blog.justjr.com/

I think one of the best blogs ever: http://1000awesomethings.com/page/2/ because anyone who blogs about things that are awesome and specifically: #678 Sneaking cheaper candy into the movie theater is fabulous in my opinion!

Okay so this one is both fabulous and adorable: http://leloveimage.blogspot.com/

I Love The Frugal Fag! I had wanted a clever name for this blog to go with his, but stuck with my old standby instead: http://frugalfag.com/

Another Fabulon Favorite: http://expatriato.blogspot.com/

If you love film and all things cinematique check out: http://filmexperience.blogspot.com/

Um, not sure how to categorize this one, fun-weird-crazy-fab makeup and dress-up? http://destroyx.com/

Four-eyes rejoice! http://www.eyeheartglasses.com/

I am an Ikea addict, I won’t lie! But this makes your Ikea filled house look less so: http://ikeahacker.blogspot.com/

Have a crock pot? Need recipes/ideas? Cheggit: http://crockpot365.blogspot.com/

Gorgeously Packaged Products (or ideas for them): http://www.thedieline.com/blog/

Fab: http://www.thecriticalcondition.com/

Oooh! I love these old pics: http://blog.krisatomic.com/?p=379

Well, that’s all I’ve got for now sweetie-darlings! While it’s a sad day without our dear Fabulon, we can keep a little piece of her in our hearts, always!

Notblueatall’s TFIF Music List (It never was a true countdown anyway!)

September25

I’m so sorry I skipped posting last week, darlings. The cafe has been keeping me quite busy and exhausted. But I do enjoy it.

This week is all about new releases! Because new music is a drug best served fresh or at the very least free! Seriously, how awesome is lala.com with their listen to anything once for free policy? They rock!

Mika “The Boy Who Knew Too Much”: Love Mika! He is fantabulous! He’s just so fun and carefree and can sing the pants off of…oh, I digress! But I love him! And if you haven’t heard this fine Brit yet, well strap yourself in for a fun ride!

The Boy Who Knew Too Much – Mi…

Harry Connick Jr. “Your Song”: It’s like he knows me, personally! I mean, okay…HCJ? YUM!!! But I will buy anything (almost) with a cover of “Besume Mucho” on it. I just love the song. And with his honey-pipes? Wow! He can make a girl melt, ya know? Yes, it’s a covers album, but no one does covers like Harry! His “Songs I Heard” album is one of my favorite cover albums of all time (maybe even the best ever, period).

Your Songs – Harry Connick Jr.

A Fine Frenzy “Bomb in a Birdcage”: I saw a video from them and realized that I had never heard their music. I’d heard their name, but I must have had them mixed up with another f-f group (fiery furnaces, fleet foxes, etc…).But I love them! I was pleasantly surprised while listening to their album. It’s fairly rare that a band has a unique or memorable sound nowadays…but they do! And I like it, a lot!

Bomb In A Birdcage – A Fine Fr…

Rodrigo y Gabriela “11:11”: Wait? You’ve never heard of them? They rock! I mean, with guitars! They lean towards a more classical style, but it’s the ultimate in modern-classical excursions. Their first album was perfection, but then they come out with another great set? WOW, just wow!

11:11 – Rodrigo y Gabriela

Well, that’s it for now sweetie-darlings. I haven’t had much free time, but I’m hoping to catch a buzz-worthy scary flick this weekend…I’ll be happy to write a review and give you the scoop on how it really was! Hope you all have a fun-relaxing-laughter-inducing weekend. I know I will! =0)

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