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TMI Tuesday!


This week’s TMI Tuesday post is about sex. If this doesn’t interest you, you’d rather not know about my sex life or  preferences, or you’re at work and don’t wanna get in trouble, do come back tomorrow for your regularly scheduled random fatty talk right here on my blog-a-ma-thing. Thanks! <3








I was talking with my husband and friends the other day and as our conversations tend towards all thing TMI, I realized that no one ever told me about Lube! And how awesome it is and how sex totally changed for me when we discovered it. Lube, I had previously thought, was for anal sex only. What? I know! Duh! Little did I know how amazing sex could be for me with such a tiny addition to the routine.

With lube, masturbation is way better and more fun. Partnered sex can be more spontaneous and well, I wasn’t such a “juicy” gal all of these years, no that is a much more recent development. Ha! But I was always self conscious about not being very wet. As I get older I now know that I need lots of build up, I LOVE lots of build up! And then I can get wet…and it rocks! I have only ever used KY’s Liquid, water based, lube. So if you have any suggestions out there, do speak up! Don’t be shy!

The other thing I don’t recall anyone ever telling me about, and not to get too political, was that birth control pills are not only for preventing babies from happening. Though touted as the go-to contraceptive for lusty ladies (Ahem!), I have known many many ladies who use it for a myriad of health concerns, too! To some of them, the no-babies thing is simply a bonus.

Now for me? I can’t do the hormones. I was on BC for sooo many years (14-27 years old I believe). Coming off of them was a nightmare. I was very near homicidal for a week! But then things leveled off and I got my libido back…big time! Woo! While on the pill for so long I had zero libido. It was like sex? Oh yeah, that happens, doesn’t it? Just no interest. Boo! Now that I’ve put some years between me and those hormones (in the end I was at the lowest dose possible), I now know my likes, dislikes, cycles and more!

Let’s talk about this stuff, y’all! What did you not know or were misinformed about sex? Have you not tried Lube? Are you a Lube master? Tell me all about it! =0)


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3 Comments to

“TMI Tuesday!”

  1. On March 6th, 2012 at 5:58 pm maggiemunkee Says:

    i really like ID glide, and i’ve found KY to be kind of glumpy, but i don’t know about the liquid. i’ve heard very good reviews of sliquid and pjur products. one reviewer (aag at says the only thing that keeps her hair under control is pjur lube. heehee.

    also! since lube is new to you: no silicone-based lubes with silicone toys (it degrades the toy, and can alter the color) or latex condoms (it degrades the latex and they are far more likely to break).

  2. On March 6th, 2012 at 11:40 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    maggiemunkee: Ooh! Thanks for the rec, I’ll have to give that a try. Certainly a fun excuse to anyway!

  3. On March 7th, 2012 at 10:48 am maggiemunkee Says:

    exactly. how will know which is the right one for you unless you try everything? many many times?

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