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Outfit From Fatty Affair


This was a dream dress, y’all! I saw this dress over two years ago for about three times the price I paid for it. When I first saw it I envisioned myself standing in front of a piano in a jazz club singing Betty Hutton songs. It could happen! Ahem! I let it go due to my financial struggles, and not yet being comfortable wearing dresses (Psshht!), but never forgot it’s beauty and how it inspired me. I watched it on eBay a couple of times, hoping for the ultimate bargain…but no dice. I’d nearly given up all hope on owning it when a couple of months ago, when I was in my full-on-Eshakti-addiction mode, I came across it again on this interesting web site:

I bookmarked the dress the moment I saw it again. I couldn’t believe my eyes! How could it be the very same dress for such a reasonable price?! It seemed impossible to me somehow so I hesitated buying it for awhile. As December began and my NYE plans started to come into focus, I knew I needed something special and maybe this site was worth the risk. I do tend to be a bit of a risk taker when it comes to online deals. But I still wasn’t quite ready to buy the “dream dress” for some reason. I first placed my NYE dress in the cart online and then perused a bit more, always going back to the bookmark for the “dream dress.” Then I thought I might as well do a quick search for coupon codes or free shipping deals for the sight. This is when I embrace and love happenstance and all of it’s magic and wonder! You see, I not only found an amazing coupon code (I don’t even remember the actual discount, maybe 30%), but I ended up qualifying for free shipping, too if I added the “dream dress!” And so I did! And it ended up being so affordable I couldn’t believe my eyes!

When the dresses arrived though I worried. They were both too big in the bust! The price was so cheap though that I didn’t want to send them back. I got a size 28 in both dresses. I bit the bullet and went to a local tailor. I paid exactly the same amount for his services as I did for both dresses…but it was totally worth it! They now hug my bosom (or bazooms if you prefer) and I feel confident and fabulous in them (except or the elastic back on the “dream dress”, My beloved Raven pinned it for me just before Fatty Affair began so I wouldn’t have to worry about slippage)!

I also went ahead and ordered the black crinoline to go underneath, since they’d both look better with it. So glad I did! I love it, I love how it makes the dresses look and I am just so pleased with it all in general! My NYE dress started my year off right and with a bang! The “dream dress” was more than any jazz club could offer! They were both Dream Dresses and the entire experience was, too! I mean, I hadn’t worn dresses happily or comfortably since high school! And now look at me? LOOK!!! Strapless! In public! Smiling! Laughing! Dancing! And having the time of my fucking life!!!

Oh yeah! The rest! Ha-ha! I am wearing my classic pearls from Shane Co. my husband bought me ages ago and one of my most treasured possessions. Also, winter length black teggings from ReDress. You all know how much I love my teggings, right? They are the perfect offspring of tights and leggings…No chub-rub!!! And the winter length are a bit thicker/sturdier so perfect for winder or colder days. My shoes?! Oh my beloved Doc Marten’s! I love my wingtips! I wear them mostly for special occasions, but also when I want a touch of sass in my style! I always get complimented on them. They are fairly comfortable, though not the best for support on long days. Docs are like that, no worries. I got these babies on eBay for $35 a few years ago. Another of my treasured possessions. Though few they are precious to me. And my hair feathers are from Ross (Dress for Less).

I had originally planned an entirely different hair do. Then I saw these feathers! The colors were perfect! They are on a comb and cost $7.99. A bit more than I would typically spend on such a thingy of curiosity, but so glad that I did. Everyone loved them! I loved them! They added that extra pizzazz you need when you have nothing on your shoulders. I still had another hair do in mind, but after my initial 80% blow dry my husband said how much he loved the natural flip my hair was doing and so I just fucking went with it! No hairspray or nothin’! Just shoved that comb in, pinned it in place and walked out the damned door! Okay, not really…I spent over an hour on my eye liner and nearly freaked out about it big time. Stress! What can ya do? Ha-ha!

It all worked out for the best. I got so many genuine compliments that I will be floating on air for weeks! Fatty Affair was a dream come true in so many ways. It is so sad to me that it’s over now, but I am looking forward to seeing everyone’s pictures and hearing their awesome stories. Everything I’ve seen so far has been just delightful! Except for the moment face book decided to block me from my account for using a “fake name!” Ugh! Don’t get me started…

Thanks for reading…more to come! <3

14 Comments to

“Outfit From Fatty Affair”

  1. On January 31st, 2012 at 7:38 am Caprice Says:

    You are so adorable in that dress!

  2. On January 31st, 2012 at 9:40 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    Caprice: Aw, thanks!

  3. On January 31st, 2012 at 11:10 am L.V.Newc Says:

    this is strikingly beautiful.

  4. On January 31st, 2012 at 9:40 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    L.V.Newc: Thank you! <3

  5. On January 31st, 2012 at 1:12 pm Twistie Says:

    You look freaking gorgeous, darling!

  6. On January 31st, 2012 at 9:40 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    Twistie: Thanks, doll! <3

  7. On January 31st, 2012 at 1:16 pm dominique Says:

    seeing you looking so confident and happy brightened my very dull, gray day. Thanks for your awesomeness and you look absolutely delicious!

  8. On January 31st, 2012 at 9:41 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    Dominique: Oooh! Delicious?! Thank you!!! =)

  9. On January 31st, 2012 at 8:59 pm Lauren Says:

    This was such an awesome outfit! You totally rocked it! I really loved the docks with them too. You just look so confident!

    I still can’t get over the fact I wore three dresses in one night. HA! I’ve already worn the other dress I didn’t wear that night to a speech I gave in class yesterday, and got so many compliments. That clothing swap was spectacular!

  10. On January 31st, 2012 at 9:41 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    Lauren: It was such an incredible day…and you made it that way! You really got caught up in the true spirit of Fatty Affair and I am so grateful that I got to see you really come out of your shell and into your own! Love you, lady! <3

  11. On February 1st, 2012 at 10:42 pm thirtiesgirl Says:

    I love this pic. With the curtains behind you and the big smile on your face, you look like Dorothy made it over the rainbow. Everything seems to be coming together in this pic to represent the ultimate expression of self love and confidence. It should be shared with many people.

  12. On February 2nd, 2012 at 9:13 am Not Blue at All Says:

    thirtiesgirl: It felt a lot like that, actually! I don’t know that I ever would have put it so eloquently, but thank you!!!

  13. On February 1st, 2012 at 11:30 pm Kath Says:

    That is a seriously gorgeous dress and you look absolutely radiant in it.

  14. On February 2nd, 2012 at 9:13 am Not Blue at All Says:

    Kath: Thank you!

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