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A Heap of Random; It’s What I Do


Are you watching Big Boy Fashion? Not only is Bruce, the owner/blogger, posting mad-rad photos of fatshionable guys daily, but also compiling a retail clothing list for big guys! Rock on!

Have you tried The Daily Booth, yet? I have been taking a pic of myself every day (almost) but I’m not yet sure what I’d like to do with them. I had an idea in mind when I signed up, but I’ve sort of forgotten. Ha!

How To Eat Healthfully During The Holidays — Free 60 Minute Teleclass! As always, Go Golda Poretsky!!! If you’ve never heard of Golda & what she does, well don’t hesitate! I was fortunate enough to attend one of her “How To Feel Sexy At Any Size” teleclasses and thought it was great, especially for those new to Body Acceptance. Check out her blog, too! I love her weekly affirmations!

Brace yourself before reading, but you must read this from about how it seems nearly okay to kill a fat person.

Saw these (awesomeness!) on

“This is not just a fat people’s issue, and it doesn’t have a physical face. My fat body does not engender consumerism or over-consumption. My fat body is not an epidemic. My fat body is a combination of genetics and shame breeding compulsion and failed diets adding pounds I wouldn’t have gained had my parents known how to encourage me to love my body as it was. It’s also the empty calories of a standing in line for government cheese, working class, meat and potatoes, latchkey kid, TV as my babysitter kind of youth. My fat body is also a warrior that carries my tender heart safely through a world that judges it every single day. My fat body is not a signifier or a dark omen. It is not part of the fall of mankind. My fat body is mine and only I know its story. This is true of all fat bodies and lumping those of us with them together and calling us an epidemic is both insulting and dangerously oversimplified.”

— -Stacy Bias

“Self-loathing is not a fucking character-builder. It doesn’t make you stronger. It doesn’t make you better. It’s just an ever-deepening, creepy-ass trap; a trap that is a huge moneymaker for corporations that do not have and never will have good intentions. You’re not disgusting. You’re not freakish. You’re not ugly. And you’re never going to be perfect. And holy shit, that is so okay.”

— Jane, Casual Blasphemies

As for me? Today, this is in my head and that is alllllllriiiiight!!!

(Shakes head realizing exactly where my personal dance-style is rooted! Ha-ha!)

What’s on your mind? Tell me all about it! =0)

6 Comments to

“A Heap of Random; It’s What I Do”

  1. On November 18th, 2010 at 3:13 pm Jane Says:

    Heh heh, it’s weird to see something I wrote randomly quoted!

  2. On November 18th, 2010 at 3:17 pm Not Blue at All Says:

    Oh! Thanks for letting me know. I tried to find more info on ya, but couldn’t through tublr. I love what you wrote though. Rock on!

  3. On November 18th, 2010 at 5:01 pm Golda Says:

    Thanks for the love, Not Blue! It’s going to be a great teleclass, and totally HAES-based, of course. xoxo

  4. On November 19th, 2010 at 8:53 am Not Blue at All Says:

    Anytime Golda! I love what you’re doing and hope that you reach as many people as possible. That’s how the HAES message will reach the masses! <3

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